One day, it won't be about the shirt...

Hi Reader, There's one thing I desperately want my kids to know. It isn't particularly profound. It's okay to be you. Wear the shirt because you like it. Don't wear the brand because everyone else is. Don't pretend to like something because the boy does. Listen to the music you love—even if I think it's terrible. (And yes, my kids know exactly what I'm talking about.) For a long time, those seemed like little things to me. They're not. Because eventually, the questions get bigger. Is this...